उन्द्रेस्सिंग SEX -5

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UNDRESSING SEX 6
It gives me a great pleasure to announce to you numerous readers that for the first time, we are going to be having a Sex education DVD that I believe will change the sexual orientation in the homes. For several months, we have been working round the clock to come out with something that will transform the homes. So from the menu you can get Sex from the Medical angle, Psychological angle, Religious perspective (both Islam and Christianity), and Parental perspective. You will also be able to listen to people who were involved in pre-marital sex and the effects on them and finally you will be able to get a full session of Sex redefinition with yours truly. Getting this done is a dream come true for me because I have always longed form something like this for years but thank God it is finally out. I want to appreciate your numerous calls and mails and I must say the project came out as a result of your encouragements and promptings.
Back to the final part of our undressing sex series I will try and redefine sex in a way I believe will be of help to you and your children.
In 1996, having been troubled by sexual challenges as a teenager for several years. I got to a point that I began to search for a solution and I remember being told several times to go on a spiritual fast to no avail. In my quest for a solution I discovered the problem was not with my genitals; it was with my mind. It was then I realized my definition and interpretation of sex was wrong. I came to the conclusion that ‘Until my belief about sex changed my sex life wouldn’t change’ It was then I sat down and came up with a definition that has transformed several ‘once upon a time’ sex addicts and is still helping many on a daily basis.
Sex is a covenant exchange of life, love and pleasure between the man and the woman in the marriage environment for the purpose of unity, procreation and the expression of marital love.
Please note the following;
Sex is a Covenant exchange – If you combine the medical with the spiritual you will realize that the medical agrees that the male sperms contains a white blood cell while the spiritual agrees that the life of a flesh is in the blood. So when there is sexual intercourse there is a deposit and a withdrawal. The man connects with the woman with his blood and as we know the strongest covenant to break is the blood covenant.
Sex is the only act that makes the totality of a man to be immersed in a woman and the totality of a woman to dissolve in the man. The man deposits what he has and picks up what the lady has (that is why sexually transmitted infections are possible)
Sex has participants – It is not meant for everyone. It is between the man and the woman. These are two people who have developed themselves in the 7 dimensions of their lives and ready for the effect of sex. And they show that by coming out publicly in the wedding ceremony.
Sex has an ideal environment – The only safe sex is sex in the marriage environment. I have about 20 reasons to prove this to you but I am sure you will come across them in the CD. But let me just tell you that every other sex outside this ideal environment is shrouded in secrecy. It is either you are hiding it from your parents as an unmarried person or from your spouse as a married person.
Sex has a purpose – The first purpose of sex is Unity, which is the only thing that happens every time you engage in it. You become absolutely united to your partner. Why don’t you take a look at couples who have been married for some years? You would discover that they look very much alike.
The second purpose is child bearing which we all know and the final purpose is expression of marital love.
There are different types of love and they all come with their requirements. As a parent no matter how much you love your daughter you can’t express you love by engaging is sexual intercourse with her. The same goes for a friend but as a husband no matter how much you take your wife out and shower her with gifts. Until you engage in sexual intercourse with her your love is not total.
Sex is not love and love is not sex but sex is an expression of a type of love and that love is the marital love.