उन्द्रेस्सिंग SEX -4

SEX TALKBACK with PRAISE O FOWOWE
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Vision 2007: Reach 10000 families with the right sexual values through the sex-pure-centric project re-orientation

UNDRESSING SEX 4
The Center for Disease Control (1990) reported that around 12 million cases of sexual transmitted diseases occurred annually (McDowell, 1992). Strikingly, 86% of people infected with sexually transmitted diseases were aged from 15 through 29 (Pepe, Sanders, & Symons, 1993).
There are so many statistics that alludes to the fact that there is something wrong somewhere. I think the problem is not with sex itself but our use of sex. And if the problem is with our use of it we must know that it is our belief system that governs the way we behave most of the time. Our believe system is a function of the dorminant information in our mind so if the information we have believed that formed our belief is not correct it would naturally dictate what we do per time/
Having been involved in sexual recovery for close to a decade I have figured out the following and they have helped several people.
- The most important thing in life is not sex – We celebrate sexual prowess at the moment and everything we do currently suggests that sex is the most important thing in life. Check the adverts, the films, magazines, billboards and every other visual aid. But the truth is that the most important thing in life is not sex. It’s so easy to be driven by the subtle message that “It’s all about sex”
- There is nothing to lose for not having sex – I am sure several people might disagree with this but it’s so simple to explain. Between the time of your virginity and the time you eventually had sex what did you lose. If you search yourself thoroughly and ask yourself this question slowly you will realize that you don’t lose anything when you don’t have sex but you lose something when you do illicit sex.
- Lack of sex doesn’t affect your productivity – Have you ever seen anyone that broke down at work and was diagnosed for lack of sex? But I am sure you have seen people whose productivity was affected for contracting HIV/AIDS through sex
- Nobody ever died for not having sex – Have you see anything like this before? “We the families of Okonta regret to announce the passing away of our beloved brother and father who died after a brief illness due to lack of sex”. It has never been recorded in history that a man died for not having sex.
- Many have been killed for perverting sex – statistics reveals that AIDS is the leading killer of Americans between the ages of 25 and 44. And we all know that most of these people contracted the disease from sex.
- There is nothing bad with sex – Before you wonder if I am about to send all of you to the monastery let me state here that there is nothing bad or wrong with sex because without it none of us would have been here. Contrary to what some people who try to teach abstinence have taught before not that sex is bad. I want you to know that sex is good, wonderful, full of fulfillment and pleasure if handled by the right users in the right environment. There is nothing wrong with sex but there is something wrong with the wrong use of sex.
- Sex provides warmth in the right season but could destroy in the wrong season - It has kept families together but had also stopped the education of several girls as a result of pregnancy. It had sent many to their untimely grave courtesy AIDS and abortion but had also sustained several marriages.
- All the sexually transmitted infections are as a result of the wrong use of sex – In my counseling clinics with couples I often tell them that you can’t contract syphilis from your partner except there is a breech of faithfulness. Statistics have shown that 1.3 million new gonorrhea cases occur annually in America and none occurred among faithful couples.
Contrary to what some other people teach or would make us believe that there is no wrong sex I say to you that there is something wrong with pre/extramarital sex. I want you to know that no matter how long we have believed a lie it would never become the truth even though we may take it as a truth.
To be continued
Vision 2025: Nigerians will undoubtedly be the most desirable people to live with because Nigeria will have the highest level of sexual purity all over the world