UNDRESSING SEX 3 – REDEFINITIONS

Sexpurecentric Friendship Leaders manual for the month of April 2008
UNDRESSING SEX – REDEFINITIONS

The value you attach to anything in life will determine the virtue you derive from it and your definition of a thing to a large extent will determine how you utilize the thing.
If your definition of an empty carton is a cap then naturally you will put it on your head.
- The story of the village man that was asked to use the Water closet on a visit to Lagos and he stood on it instead of sitting on it.

The greatest problem we have with sex is the definition we have attached to various sex organs and all that concerns sex.

Ask somebody to give you the definition of sex based on what we discussed two months ago?

Week 1 – Breast or Boobs
Most men are moved by a lady’s breast because there is a myth that has been built around the breast for years. The breast has been called a lot of names such that so many ladies don’t even know what the breast is.
Questions
- What comes to your mind as a guy when you see a lady’s breast.
- What do you think the breast is meant for?
- Why do you think most guys are crazy about the breast?
- Why do you think some ladies love to expose their breast?
- What do you think is in the breast?
- If it’s milk how come it doesn’t come until a baby is born?

Composition of the breast
Milk Lobule – This is the milk producing glands of the breast responsible for the production of milk.
Milk Duct – This is the part of the breast that moves the milk from the lobule to the nipple.
Connective tissues and fats – This fills the breast to complete the physiological make-up.

What is the breast - It is the milk manufacturing factory of the woman with a specialized consumer – Infant and secondarily enhances the sexual pleasure in the marriage environment.
An infant doesn’t struggle for milk to come because it comes naturally so anything the breast stares you in the face, redefine it and put it where it belongs.
Question – How must you begin to see a lady’s breast henceforth.

Week 2 – The penis and the sperm

A lot of ladies talk about the penis of guys and several guys also talk about their penis
- What do ladies and guys say about the penis?
- why do men like to compare their penis with each other?
- why do some men masturbate with their penis?
- what do you think is the purpose of the penis
The sperm is the male’s organ that is primarily meant for the emission urine and secondarily act as the passage for the man’s seed when sexually stimulated. When the penis is misused you naturally suffer the consequence and this include weak erection, impotence, stress, anxiety, sperm leakages etc
Sperm – The man’s choiced seed that guarantees the preservation of his future. Explain the sperms based on the principle of the seed.



Week 3 – Vagina Monologue
- What comes to your mind when you hear about a lady’s vagina
- How do ladies perceive their vagina?
- From last month’s study what must we do to a virgin land
- Why do men pay for the vagina and why do ladies use vagina for money?
- What are the effects of using the land for the wrong purpose?
This is the sealed parcel of land of the woman that is exclusively preserved for the king’s cultivation in the marriage season. It has a lot of nerve endings that can stimulate a lady and give her pleasure during sexual intercourse in the marriage season.
Let your members repeat the definition till it sinks into their subconscious. Then let them discuss it.
When you misuse your land you also suffer the consequence such as low self esteem, unwanted pregnancy, sterility etc


Week 4 – Body, Private part and the public parts

Quote – Sex without marital commitment reduces a woman to a hole that must be penetrated at all cost.
- why do we get moved by the body of the opposite sex?
- What is special about the body?
- Is the personality the body or the spirit?
- What do people desire in coca-cola, the bottle or the content
The body is the earth suit/house/container that ensures the legality of the human spirit on planet earth.
A lady’s body is her container and you must develop interest in the person in the container. The same way a guy’s car or good dressing is not who he is.
As the bottle of coca-cola doesn’t get you aroused, never get aroused by the body of the opposite sex. Learn to redefine it.

B.
- Name the public parts of a lady/guy.
- Name the private parts of a lady/guy
- Who is entitled to the public parts of a lady/guy?
- Who is entitled to the private parts of a lady/guy?

The public parts are the parts of the human body that are meant for everybody
The public parts are the parts of the human body that is exclusively meant for you and your partner in the marriage season.

It is your right to keep your private parts private but when you begin to flaunt your private parts as a public part then you must know that the men have a right to make a demand.

- Take questions and review what you have learnt all through the month. Good understanding procures favour so if you properly master these definitions you are sure to live above sexual challenges. .

remain sexpurecentrist .