Thursday, February 7, 2008

ABOUT SEXPURECENTRIC FRIENDSHIP CENTERS

ABOUT SEX-PURE-CENTRIC FRIENDSHIP CENTER

INTRODUCTION

Imagine if just life expectancy drops to 30 in Africa? You don’t want that to happen right?
Are you aware that 1 out of every 4 ladies and 1 out of every 6 boys have been sexually abused before their 18th birthday?
While some of us were luck not to have been sexually abused, the effect of the abuse is evident in our world today because on a daily basis more girls leave the homes to live in the brothels while more young boys are becoming miscreants and even rapists.
With the innocents minds of our young people being abused on a daily basis by the movie and the music industry coupled with the fact that so many young people are now sexually active which had increased the possibility of contacting the dreaded HIV/AIDS. There is the need to do something urgently or even raise a sexually pure generation of people who know the truth about their sexuality and are able to properly manage it as they influence others. Take it or leave it we are all victims of our sexual illiteracy. That is why something has to be done urgently.
The truth is, if nothing is done because you think you are fine and have no problems at all you must remember that you may need a house help someday, your child would need a teacher someday or even have some new friends someday or even get married someday and the people you could have taken responsibility for that we failed to assist may eventually be the ones to destroy the children we have raised(may it not happen).
That is the whole essence of this assignment.

if we refuse to do anything and take responsibility for the people around us and they become pregnant and drop out of school we must all remember that some of them may become armed robbers and the ladies would become househelps who will take care of our children later in life and what do youu think will happen to your innocent child?
How many ladies will keep their virginty this year as a result of your responsibility? SELAH

Condom
As much as we appreciate agencies advocating condom we all know that sex isn’t just physical and there is no condom that can protect the innocent minds of our young people from the emotional and psychological effect of engaging in sex before marriage. We believe that young people can master their sexuality if they have access to the right information and positive role-model. If they can learn the right information about sex then they will think right, live right and ultimately grow up to become change agents in the society.
The only safe sex we believe is sex in the marriage environment.
YOU ARE WELCOME

OUR AIM –
That through the sex-pure-centric friendship centres, the right values about sex would be taught and spread on every street from generation to generation.

OUR OBJECTIVES

1. Raise a sexually pure generation of young people who know the truth about sex and live as role-models
2. Spread the right sexuality values across every streets of the nation
3. Assist the sexually challenge and the vulnerable by providing accountability platform
4. Reduce the rate of teenage pregnancy, death through abortion and the spread of sexually transmitted infections
5. Promote abstinence and restore chastity and mutual respect among young people.
6. Preserve the destinies of our future leaders.

HOW WE OPERATE

A sex-pure-centric friendship center is made up of 11 members(except special centres whose membership is unlimited) consisting of the SFC skippo, assistant skippo, team manager(welfare director) and the team scribe as the key leaders with others being members.
The team meet once every week in streets, offices, schools and homes to deliberate on different sexuality issues and get the right information about the issue.
The goal is to raise 11 right thinking leaders who can also start and manage 11 other sfcs and spread the right sexuality values.

The meeting ends with the sex 2 sex pledge

I pledge to my God and gender, to keep my body from pre-marital sex

To treat every lady/man as my mother/father, sister/brother, daughter/son, and my neighbours queen/king

To defend their virginity, and uphold their chastity and purity

So help me God



MEMBERSHIP
Membership is free but the members must be willing to subscribe and abide by our core values as expressed by the acronym RAISE
R- responsibility
A-accountability
I-integrity
S-sexual purity
E-entrepreneuring
However intending leaders are trained in order to equip them for the task of running the SFC.


LEADERSHIP STRUCTURE
We operate a 5 by 5 leadership structure with the most important leader being the sfc leader.
5 SFCs make a Section - section leader
5 Sections(25 sfcs) make an area - area co-ordinator
5areas (125 sfcs) make a zone - Zonal co-ordinator
5 zones(625 sfcs) make a district - District Igwe


MONTHLY PREVIEW

All the sfc leaders in a section are expected to meet for a monthly preview to discuss the forum for every month having gotten the monthly manual from www.globalpurity.blogspot.com








MONTHLY REPORT
All the sfc leaders are expected to submit their reports to their immediate up line and also share their weekly experiences with us on-line by simply clicking post a comment on http://www.globalpurity.blogspot.com/


Frequently asked question
1. What happens to my SFC in case I have to travel or go to school?
Response – we expect you to start developing your leaders immediately after the commencement of the sfc. Their should be no leadership vacuum and the meeting must continue in your absence however it won’t be a bad idea if you start another sfc in your zone.

2. What format is the meeting?
Response – It is interactive forum where everybody is expected to contribute and share experiences that can assist the other person. Also every meeting must end with the sex2sex pledge.

3. Are the SFC leaders allowed to raise funds?
Response – Anything the groups decide to collect must be voluntary, must be for the development of the group and must be disclosed to the leadership. Remember 2 of our core values accountability and integrity.

4. Can I customize my meetings?

Depending on the people you have decided to reach out to. The meetings may be customised for pre-teens, teenagers, Drivers, artisans and even core professionals. However every meeting must be in an open place. Also SFCs can decide to go for a charitable work but clearance must be gotten from your zonal co-ordinator.

For more enquiries call:
2348037269483, 2347028191510

OR SEND A MAIL TO sexpurecentric_sfc@yahoo.com

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